š± Our worst cultural fears and a shameful koĢrero
Kia ora e te whÄnau,
Nau mai, hoki mai ki Te Arawhata!
Weāre back with a whole lot of MÄori arts, media, and event goodness to keep that cultural kete full to the brim.
Read on for:
- This weekās āTalk of the TÄoneā including Moana 2, a MÄori surfer, and a tease from Teeks
- Our PÅ whakamataku/Halloween inspired āTop 4ā MÄori arts, media, or events listāthe connection journey fears edition
- A shameful āKÅreroā on what those picks brought up for us and quite possibly (but hopefully not) you
Kua rite koe?/Are ya ready? Reheko!/Letās go!
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- Release equality! Moana 2, reo MÄori will hit cinemas the same day as the English version.
- So cool he only has one post on his insta grid right now, singer Teeks is teasing new beats.
- Awhi Ora RongoÄ dropped several knowledge bombs on ikura/periods we wish we learned twenty years ago (sound is dodgy, ideas are not).
- MÄori pro surfer Kehu Butler showed the world how to do Indigenous - commercial giant partnerships right.
- āM9: Sports, culture, and politicsā tickets are going like frybread.
- MÄori reporter, Joel Maxwell, shared some pretty inspiring dreams and whakaaro on what a MÄori economic system could look like.
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Everyone reading Te Arawhata is on some level of reconnection or connection journey with te ao MÄori and isnāt it rad?
So fun. So fulfilling. But also, at times, so ruddy scary!
This week we searched for picks that acknowledge the most fear-inducing parts of the haerenga/journey and offer some kind of advice or at least reassurance to help us all get through.
And we found āem alright. Eek. Want to hold hands?
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(to assure you're not the only one)
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Folks familiar with the brain-disabling terror that comes when a more advanced speaker invites you to kÅrero with them, this is for you.
Find it on Youtube I 2 mins I Free I Te reo MÄori with subtitles & Te reo PÄkehÄ I Directed by and edited by Natalie Wi
(to prove it's sometimes better left to the experts)
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You know how MÄui is clamped to death in the end by Hine-nui-te-pÅ? Turns out it maaaay have been his dadās faultā¦ Study the details ki konei/here.
Find it in all good bookstores I 64 pages I $40 I Te reo PÄkehÄ with some kupu MÄori I written and illustrated by Gavin Bishop
(for help to get it right)
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When is it cool to learn te reo MÄori and attend that rongoÄ workshop and when is it taking up space? E hika, itās hard to get it right as a PÄkehÄ, nÄ?! This will help.
Find it on the RNZ website I 7 mins I Free I Te reo PÄkehÄ I directed by Kathleen Winter
*This is not a MÄori production e hoa mÄ, but it supports our kaupapa so weāve happily included it.
(to calm stage fright jitters)
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Thereās no getting around itāwhen youāre in MÄori spaces, youāve gotta waiata/sing. May as well get used to it fam, and this is about the most supportive place you can do it.
Find them at Te Pou Theatre, Henderson, TÄmaki Makaurau I 1.5 hours I Free I run by Te Pou Theatre
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Warning: I do use the kupu ādickā a lot in this story. Thereās just no other word for it.
Throughout our rangahau/research this wiki, one main fear kept coming up - the fear of not being accepted by MÄori because youāre not MÄori enough, or at all for our treaty partners.
I know it well. About ten years ago, the slightest insinuation that I wasnāt MÄori enough would crush my young wee soul.
It happened of course.
I remember being in a workshop with a cultural advisor who kept referring to his tÄ«ma/team as āMÄoriā and my tÄ«ma as āPÄkehÄā.
In a (quite carefully thought out) jovial way, I corrected him with something like, āYo, me and Nicky are from the coast too!ā
His team smiled in acknowledgement.
He didnāt. And continued to call us āPÄkehÄā for the rest of the day.
Ooshhh, did it hurt.
For non MÄori I imagine a similar (but different, but similar) feeling might occur if you were enjoying a MÄori class of some sort and a MÄori classmate whispered, āWhy are you even here?ā
Sucker punch, right to the ngÄkau/heart.
I wish this was the point I realised this guy was just being a bit of a dick and moved on. But itās not. I spent years struggling with confidence around my MÄoritanga.
The breakthrough came later. Iām embarrassed to share the story with you because itās so horrifying, but I will.
I was on a walk with a very close hoa/friend who is also MÄori and holds some different opinions to me. At some point she pronounced āTaupÅā wrong, and, thinking she was doing it on purpose, I called her out.
āWhy do you do that?ā I asked.
āWhat?ā she replied.
āWhy do you keep pronouncing it like that when you know I care?ā
There was quite a long silence before she burst into tears. I only just caught her muffled words, āI donāt know how to say it,ā before she stormed off.
I apologised profusely, watching my ill-thought-out words hit. I could see them taking on meaning I never intended and making her feel ānot MÄori enoughā in the same way Iād felt in the past.
Yep, itās yuck.
And thatās how I know tÄngata/people who shoot you down on the connection haerenga are definitely just being a dick, e te whÄnau.
Iāve not only let myself be hurt by them, Iāve been them myself.
So seriously, donāt be scared, donāt let them get you down, and most of all, donāt be the dick.
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We hope this newsletter helped you to enjoy, learn more about, and deepen your connection with te ao MÄori today (and confront some fears)
MÄ te wÄ!/Laters!
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